Congresslad and congresslass
This made me laugh, particularly because as a coach of boys and girls teams, there are lots of things to call boys that will never get a second thought. So: lads (one of my favorites, I picked it up from an Irish friend), fellas, guys, dudes, boys, men, etc. All of these are terms that you can throw at a group of boys pretty much no matter their age, and no one bats an eyelash.
Now what's the list for a girls/young women's team (that you can feel absolutely assured you won't pay a price for)?
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"Girls" is the safest, but some of the teens don't like it. "Ladies?" Definitely get some side eye for that one (I still use it, but sparingly, and only with a team who knows me pretty well). I'll use "guys," but feel like I have to say it fast and move on. "Lasses" is a straight no. "Women" just doesn't roll off the tongue right.
Seriously, we need a better list of words to refer to a group of women that isn't emotionally charged. Maybe a "murder" like for crows. I might try that on. :-)
Language and culture are funny that way.