If "we" are not willing to modify behaviors to limit spread, why are the numbers turning down?
The theories for this have been:
1. The numbers scared people into limiting contact and wearing masks etc. (modifying behaviors);
2. Additional government restrictions (in some states);
3. Some kind of resistance in a sizeable percentage of the population so we hit herd immunity early.
4. The virus has changed somehow.
5. Something unknown.
6. Some combination of the above.
I do think people are modifying behaviors. I don't think they're modifying behaviors NEARLY enough to get the numbers down to the sorts of levels seen in Europe or Asia where you'd call the levels very low. I honestly doubt it's possible to get numbers that low without continued lockdowns, which we don't have the stomach for at this point.
Even then, it's questionable whether that's a good strategy. We haven't seen what will happen in Europe now that they're reopening, and what will happen when their kids go to school. Maybe they'll have a second wave and all that lockdown would have been for naught because I doubt they'll get that genie back in the bottle once they've opened.
As I've said, it's all about R0... And when it comes to behavior, this popular chart is pretty solid:

If people go out to a bar or brunch with someone not from their household and takes their mask off to eat/drink, you're immediately at "highest". If people go to a salon and get a haircut or get nails done, and both are masked, you're at "low" but still nonzero risk because you can't realistically distance. If you go out to the grocery store and everyone is masked and trying to stay far apart, you still have nonzero risk but it's very low.
The bottom is "practically none". If we all could do that, we could knock R0 down to basically zero and crush this virus. But we can't and won't all do that. Some people simply HAVE to be out of the house for work, and we won't accept a lockdown of that severity because of how severely even the limited lockdowns we have affected our freedoms.
So behavior modification might bring down new case rates. It might even get R0 below 1, for a while, until people start getting lax in their behavior again. But R0=0.9 isn't going to get us down to case rates where testing and contact tracing would be sufficient within an acceptable timeline to get kids into school, and the minute we start seeing case rates dropping we'll likely see behavior change and R0 go back above 1 for a while.