I got used to eastern NC BBQ when I was there, just as I got used to Cincy chili when I was there. I like nearly everything (not liver).
There is a place on the NC/SC coast where a small town has something like 20 seafood restaurants, all clustered together called Calabash. If you're every going by you should stop. That is the best fried seafood I've ever had, and we do stop there if we're anywhere close.
There is a place near there called Big Nell's Truck Stop that is also superb, hole in the wall, without a wall. It may be closed now, don't know.