We got married in 2013, in our backyard, with 29 attendees. My wife spent some on her gown, her money, probably $3 K. Never worn since of course, paid to have it specially stored somewhere. I took everyone out to a very nice dinner at Eddie Merlot's, the tab was about $3500. We had a photographer, probably $700?
I thought it was a bit pricey at the time, but didn't complain. We had a very good time. I did spend some more on hotel bills for folks who flew in from out of the US.