I have a bit of a subconscious tracker that operates in my mental background and is vaguely aware of how much things should cost. Things like groceries, I'm more acutely aware of because I frequently do some grocery shopping and I'm in charge of the household budget. It's quite amazing how much groceries have shot up lately. I used to budget $500/month for our groceries just about 4 or 5 years ago.....prior to Covid, really. Our budget is now $750/month, and I sweat to you we're not coming home with as many groceries as we used to. We've all had to give up a few "luxury" grocery items. However, we're fortunate that such an increase isn't breaking us.
But I don't really keep my ear to the ground for real estate prices. I depend more on the subconscious tracker thing. My stepson who still lives with us came home the other day and was complaining about how unaffordable homes are now and how it's going to be impossible to get a house when he graduates college. I know that he's prone to exaggeration and also doesn't budget very carefully and also probably has unrealistic expectations of starting out with the same standard of living on his own that he has here, under us. I told him no, no, you're just going to have to learn to watch your spending more closely and be willing to cut way down on a lot of the hobbies you spend money on. He said I didn't know what I was talking about, so I said let's do some house shopping in our area and start planning a budget for him based on what he can reasonably expect to start out making as an engineer in our area.
Y'all.
Affording a small middle class home here is not at all like it was when I was starting out 20ish years ago. I mean....like....he'll be in better shape than many, I suspect, because his starting salary stands to be above average. For kicks, I started calculating things based on range of other jobs a kid might start out at whose parents don't put him/her through college or he/she opts not to go in debt over college. It just.....doesn't work. I don't know how many of his peers could expect to purchase a home in the near future. His gf rents because her degree and new job don't even come close to affording her a mortgage. Thing is, I know what she pays in rent, and imo it's insane....at least compared to what rent should be in my mind. I paid less than she does IN AUSTIN for a nicer place, just 15 years ago. Her apartment is a long way from the city and is small, and old. And it's by far the cheapest thing she found in our area. If she wanted to live closer to her job, or in a better apartment, she can't even afford that. I think they'll probably get married soon after he graduates and pool their resources, but wow. Real estate prices have far outpaced the wages. It's just not the same for them as it was for me.