We have coaches who say "F you" to the recruits who they made promises to, and jump at the next better offer; so I don't see why we have a problem with players saying "F you" to their teammates and to the fans whose support pays for their scholarship. But that's why I then also don't have a problem as a fan, saying from from a competition perspective, I don't like either the idea of big programs being able to pay to swing the balance even farther in their favor, or the idea of players skipping bowl games. I can understand it, and not blame them for it, and still dislike it.