I get it, but that is my point. I can't figure out a way to police it so it is an all-or-nothing thing. I'm not really all that strongly opposed to what @utee94 and I are referring to as "legitimate" benefits but I am strongly opposed to what he and I are referring to as "illegitimate" benefits and I can't see any way to define the difference in an enforceable way so I am opposed to it generally.
Finally, I disagree with your theory that it will benefit smaller schools. In the end I think it would benefit the big helmets simply because they have the most fans/boosters. I'm not sure how specifically it would work out but I assume that it would work to the benefit of the big helmets like my school. That said, while I generally like things that are good for my school, I don't like this because I think it could just completely flatline the non-helmets and make it such that the Ohio State's, Alabama's, Texas', and USC's of CFB have virtually zero in-conference competition, much worse than it is now. At the end of the day I want my team to win every game, but I do't want it to get to the point where the B1G's non-helmets permanently don't even have a prayer.
Except for Michigan, I'm assuming?

Well here's one way it would work to Big Money U's advantage, over Scrappy State. To go with bwar's example of 5* Johnny Armcannon once again, let's assume he's right and the real asking price for his services is going to be $250,000. That's not so far-fetched, as we all know the LOSING bid for Cam Newton's services was $180,000 so Auburn paid something north of that to buy their player and the resulting national championship.
So Armcannon wants $250,000. Now that's a lot even for Big Hat from Big Money U, and it's even more to expect from BagMan Manchester, since Scrappy State doesn't have the same resources. But, knowing that the star QB for Big Money U is going to be able to sell his likeness to all 500,000 living alumni of the university, it's less of a gamble for Big Hat, than it would be for BagMan Manchester from Scrappy State, since they only have 200,000 living alumni and bring in maybe 25% of the licensing revenue that Big Money U does on an annual basis.
You see, Big Hat certainly has to front the money, but he's also making an investment with an expected financial ROI down the line, and not just buying a player to win football games. And the expected ROI for a starting QB at Big Money U is naturally going to be a lot more than it will be for the starting QB at Scrappy State. So Big Hat has a lot more money to play with in setting up his portfolio of bought-and-paid-for recruits.
Maybe. It's just a working theory anyway.

What happens when Bartholomew "The Bag Man" Manchester crosses Joe Texas Big-Hat Billionaire Booster and he starts to realize that Johnny Armcannon, the 5* QB,has changed allegiance what are the legal ramifications because the NCAA has anal cerebral inversion as usual
Oh, you mean like the time that Texas A&M boosters gave Eric Dickerson a brand new gold Trans Am, and Dickerson drove that thing right up to Dallas where he played for SMU to the tune of $1,000,000? And that was back in 1983...
In reality, Armcannon doesn't get a dime of his money until he signs, or steps on campus, or whatever. With everything above the table and legal, it's not hard simply to write all of that into the contract.