It isn't so much performance related as life related for me.
You mentioned having kids, that us the biggest part of it for me.
The other thing that has changed is the ability to easily price-check and get tickets on the secondary market online.
Years ago there were two ways to get season tickets for Ohio State football:
- Be an alum from prior to about 1975*, buy your one game per year for a few years, then you'd get the ability to buy season tickets and you would maintain that so long as you kept buying them, or
- Write a check for about a grand to tOSU and that would get you eligible to buy season tickets for that year.
We lucked into a situation where a friend of my dad was too old to go to the games but he got the season tickets and just sold them to my dad for about 20 years.
At first I was in school at Ohio State and my brother (HS at the time) and dad would come down for the games.
Then I graduated and soon after that my brother started at Ohio State so my dad and I would go down for the games.
After my brother graduated we had two tickets for the three of us. Plus my brother and I each got two tickets to one game through the Alumni Association.
By that time my dad was old enough to not really want to go to cold-weather games so my brother and I alternated going to early season games with my dad, then my brother and I would go to the October/November games.
Long story short, I probably went to about three-quarters of Ohio State's home games from 1993-2017 or so. Plus dad, brother, and I traveled to all the B1G stadiums to watch them and I went to some bowl games as well.
My oldest turns four tomorrow and he has two younger sisters. Between having kids, my dad having alzheimers, then passing away, and the pandemic, I haven't been to an Ohio State game in years. I think my last one was THE GAME in 2018.
I still watch, but it isn't nearly as much of a plan EVERYTHING around it deal. Part of that is time, part of it is the CFP. In the old days a loss was a HUMONGOUS deal because it pretty much eliminated any NC hopes. This past year Ohio State lost to Michigan and while that still sucks, their very next game was a NC Semi-final. The Game used to BE the NC Semi-final.
Basketball:
As an Ohio State fan, this is a better comparison for me. I'm not done with the team, but until they make the necessary change at HC there is no reason to expect any notable accomplishments. I've accepted that.
*The season tickets thing:
I know alums from the 60's. They all get season tickets without writing big checks. They bought their one game a year for a few years (meaning <5) then got upgraded to season tickets.
I know alums from the late 1970's who have bought their tickets to one game per year for almost 50 years and they STILL don't get season tickets.
What is funny is that I've heard more than a few of them tell their kids NOT to let tOSU know when they die and I know two attorneys in town who have kept estates open to keep getting the tickets, LoL.