The expectations at Georgia and Florida should be 9-10 wins/year, and win the East 4 times per decade. That's the reality this homer is perfectly fine with. You're never going to be happy as a Tennessee football fan if you think we "belong" at the top.
Your argument falls apart when it comes to Bama. IF in-state/proximity recruiting is perfectly or at least highly correlated to wins, then Bama should be behind FL, GA, LSU, Auburn and possibly A&M. AL's in-state recruiting is marginally better than TN and they share the state with Auburn.
Check out Bama's roster. 15 from FL, 10 from GA and LA. Add several each from TX, PA, CA, SC, MS and DC. They are getting the best recruits in the nation, not in the state. Also, many recruited in state will never stiff the field. Family played at Bama, or has big donation bucks, etc.
TN is one Saban away from SEC dynasty.