I agree with Junior, Frankie. It can be avoided. You just have to do a better job of screening them because there are certain habits and qualities that correlate to drama and BS.
If she wears a lot of makeup, she’s probably high maintenance.
If she is on the large side she probably has no self-control, hates herself and blames anyone and everyone else for her misery.
If she has an unnatural hatred for or affection for her mom, she’s crazy and so is her mom. Stay away.
Barring those three things, it should be okay for you to venture a date or two.