That's all very interesting-- seriously I mean it. I'm always interested in cultural distintions between the generations. In general I've tended to think of you as more GenX than GenY/Millennial, but the existence and importance of MTV actually showing music videos, is a pretty important touchstone to GenX, so this is one area where it seems your growing experiences differed from the solid core of a GenX upbringing.
MTV was omnipresent to us. It was the soundtrack, and the video track, of our lives. It was on at every party, it not only reflected, but it curated, pop culture for our generation. GenX wouldn't be what it is, such as it is, without MTV.
Yep. Understanding that there's 8 years between us (and I'll soon forget again and go back to thinking it's 4, I have no idea why, but this has been happening for all 20 years I've been on this board), it's not
hugely significant at this juncture. I'd even opine that when I was in Austin in my 20's and you were in your 30's, there wasn't exactly a gulf between our experience of the world and how we perceived it.
But when you look at more formative years, 8 is a lot, and in some respects worth being reclassified into different generations based on something exactly like MTV. Realizing that you were graduating college right as I was entering high school is a pretty meaningful distinction at that age.
When I was a kid, MTV (or was it VH1? Not sure...) started re-running The Monkees, a sitcom from the 60's wherein the stars got so popular that they eventually formed a real band and did real touring. I thought the TV show was great, and my sister had a lot of their old albums, so it kind of got me into their music, which I might now call "Neil Diamond's Greatest Hits For Four Other Guys." That was the bulk of my watching experience through the late 80's. Don't even ask me about the early 80's.....I was there but I can't remember 'em. (Insert joke here about how not remembering the 80's is the surest sign you lived through them).
I have some recollections of, say, the Bangles (
Walk Like An Egyptian provoked feelings in me I did not understand), or Bon Jovi (their long hair scared the hell out of me, at that age I made no distinction between them and an anarchist biker gang) and others that interested me....but not like music would interest me a little later. No, at that age what I really wanted was to go outside and run around for hours, and then come back inside and annoy the hell out of my family and neighbors with my drum set. Watching MTV was not high on the list of things which defined my ethos.
When that time period rolled around, say, roughly, middle school, MTV had moved to a lot of grunge rock, much like the radio, which was okay with me at the time. It also included my favorite era of rap, and also some R&B acts like Boyz II Men were big. It was all going so nicely. We were starting to grow up, and the soundtrack appeared to be set.
And then
The Real World happened. And other stuff kept happening. By the time I was just halfway through high school, MTV was Jenny McCarthy on
Singled Out and
MTV Beach House where college kids with too much money and not enough to do went to places like Mexico and danced outside in their bikinis to shortened versions of videos that VeeJays kept interrupting to talk more. Dammit.
(Ok, look.....yes, I did watch more
Singled Out than my actual interest in the show should've ever warranted. But I was like 15, and it was Jenny McCarthy, and I don't think I have to really explain myself there.)
There were still videos on the air, and it still did create an ethos for people my age. We talked about new bands or the latest popular videos.....but that kind of viewing was less frequent. It had seemed like when I was a kid, any time you turned on MTV, videos were playing. In high school, you had to wait until late at night, or just kind of pick up on them as they played within other programs like the dumb Beach House thing, or
Beavis and Butthead. I was aware there had been a time when MTV was literally video radio, always there for you, and that I'd kind of missed it. It wasn't the same experience for me and my friends that it had been for my sister and her friends.
In college the renewed hard rock wave hit, with bands like System of a Down, Sevendust, Limp Bizkit, etc. and as previously mentioned, those bands got a lot of video play on M2. But culture was fragmented by that point. A lot of my co-eds didn't watch M2. A lot of them didn't even know about it. The internet was a growing thing by then and people weren't getting their music from a major unified source anymore, and worse, to my dismay, so many my age didn't seem to care about music at all. That seemed very irregular as a kid, through middle school and even high school, but in college it felt like it was becoming more commonplace. Through grade school, you meet somebody, you often immediately start talking about your favorite music, because that's how we got to know each other. In college, you start asking someone about their favorite music, you might draw a blank stare.
Dammit
again......here I am, putting my years of work on my drumming craft to use during college, I'm supposed to be rewarded with hot chicks throwing themselves at me as I perform with local bands, getting hired at local recording studios, etc......and do these college chicks care about that? Can they carry on a conversation about their favorite band? Do they care that I'm awesome with two sticks in my hand? No? Well f*** off, I'll go find one'a'them GenX cougars, those ladies know how to properly respect a drummer and they totally get it when I bitch about MTV not playing videos anymore.
So based on that last sentence, the moral of the story, I think, is that I've been a grumpy old man for years.