I literally never even thought about the whole 9 conference game scenario vs 8 games. It only comes up in this forum, and it really doesn't matter. I have no idea why we talk about it so much, and once Texas is in the SEC you won't care either.
About the only thing I don't care about is not playing all the conference foes in a somewhat decent time frame. For example, A&M has only played UGa once in conference in our 12 years in the SEC. I'd like to play all the conference teams at least twice per decade or something. But when you get to 14, 16, or more teams that becomes more and more difficult.