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MrNubbz

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #84 on: November 08, 2018, 08:28:20 AM »
Yeah, I'm sure there are "real Amish" shops, I just didn't find any poking around, and those two were just selling off the name.  I was a bit annoyed and gave up my search.
There is a difference to between the Old Order Amish and the Mennonites.When they work together the Mennonites are the ones who use the modern amenities(driving,phones,power tools,etc).It's funny the Amish can't own a phone or car but they can use your phone or get a ride with you.They still have public phone booths in Amish Country.And they'll hire non Amish for the purpose of E-Business.
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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #85 on: November 08, 2018, 08:33:30 AM »
That "Area 51" section should really be changed to "The Cesspool"

Makes this whole thing look like a domestic terrorist site disguised as a CFB site.
bluntly, you went in there making an ass of yourself blasting vulgarities and childishly calling people you don't know names charged with intent to incite. insofar as i am concerned about the interaction, i'm thinking 'the cesspool' handled you accordingly. 

cursing on this site isn't something promoted, but it isn't penalized either- as it is we're all mostly adults and the conversation often includes a few- uh- descriptors- that wouldn't be used somewhere, perhaps like a court room or church or something akin.  i've never seen attacks here where harsh language intended to incite was used except in rare cases, and all on that board. 

you can do what you want- it's your call... nobody is going to 'police' anyone here unless there is an extreme circumstance.  the facts, however, are you offered nobody any opportunity but to retort to your attacks, and then you call them 'terrorists'.  you can hate on me all you want for speaking truth, but the objective with this post is not to create another situation where 'internet tough guy' comes back around, but to diffuse the circumstance and ask you to have some respect for others even if what they comment is alien to you.  

that board is an echo chamber- much more so than it was on the other site as there were more opposition there- i'd like to see it change to something like that, and where contempt for others opinion's and positions isn't more important than decency.  There was a common bond on the other site that was Tennessee Alum and Tennessee Football, even posters that personally knew each other outside of the intertube.  that still exists on this site, but doesn't with outsiders, such as yourself, blasting in with the name calling. - meaning: you got precisely and exactly what you asked for and went in there seeking.  

man to man, as well as in public here so others can understand the position and posture i'd like to see offered on the site and board (all of them) :  please don't do that anymore.  it only serves destructive purpose, not any type of joining.  I'm sick and tired of division- i'm thinking most people are.  I'm not asking you (and never would) to consider their positions and demand you respect them, but instead to consider they have the right to them, and realize you're not going to change them while attacking them.  if you have enough interest in them as people, which i recognize you don't -but THEY do and I do- and it triggers your interest to sway, do so with respect next time? 

this is about as close as i will hopefully ever come to 'moderating', but i'd like to remind you and everyone else that this place wants to be a place people can speak their mind and much in the spirit of the 1A but with added opportunity not to be judged for sharing thoughts and opinions, but it remains private property where there is no 'right' to say anything you want. i truly and absolutely hope to never have to edit anyone's post or attempt silencing of anyone. 

thank you, @mcwterps1 , we've known each other via interweb a long time and i know you're a reasonable person and knowledgeable of the game as well as of Maryland Football.  i'd rather see unsteady cooperation than nasty rejection of the notion we can make this place (including that board) work to remain civil.... and by the way- i also had this conversation elsewhere.  you're not being singled out as much as being used as an example among friends here that aren't judging.  apologies for that and thank you for your understanding of that- i wouldn't do it if i didn't think you'd understand and at least appreciate i do it without malice or judgement of you.  i'm just trying to take this opportunity to describe what i'd like to see us become.   

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #86 on: November 08, 2018, 08:48:48 AM »
TV has standardized the language, and accents, a good bit.

I don't hear many southern accents around me here in the ATL.
It may not be what you were getting at, but close enough for another linguistic wowzer: many books have been written about this odd phenomenon in America where, when it comes to accents, *everyone* thinks they sound like the media.
It's super weird.
Our ability to appreciate our own accents is surprisingly limited. Obviously I'm a midwesterner. When I went to school in central PA, it took me a *long* time to notice that (or how) they spoke differently than me. But right from hour 1, they knew I wasn't from around there.

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #87 on: November 08, 2018, 08:52:44 AM »
I started noticing how my family developed a Southern accent a few years after I moved north.

It was amazing, don't know why they did that.

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #88 on: November 08, 2018, 11:22:55 AM »
"Supposably" is definitely a thing beyond Florida and Arizona. And it's like nails on a chalk board to me.

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« Reply #89 on: November 08, 2018, 11:31:22 AM »
I try to distance myself from the unwashed masses that use "Supposably"
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« Reply #90 on: November 08, 2018, 11:39:00 AM »
i recall a teacher lighting me up as a senior in high school- she was devastated i used the words "a lot" together... as in "alot".   She asked me to spell it verbally and I said "a ell oh tee"... she asked me to act like i was typing it and which keys i'd push and I said "a space l o t"... she then docked me for not using the typewriter correctly.  

that would be the one that bothers me, i guess.... a lot... two words, yo.  and this is coming from a dude who used to think "Taj Mahal" was "Tajma Hall" before i actually saw it in print and not spoken...

someone once said a person not capable of performing math is given a pass, but a person who can't spell just show's they're an idiot.  Well, without spell check- i'm an idiot.  i base on phonetics, and catch myself all the time typing at full blast how something sounds instead of how it is properly spelled- thank God for those little red squiggly underlines.


oh... another humorous folly i nail every. single. time. 

I see Yosemite and i initially read it 'yoze-mite'... you'd think i'd have that one nailed visually by now... and I still have a hard time why Arkansas and Kansas aren't related more than they are... 
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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #91 on: November 08, 2018, 11:42:57 AM »
I was almost unique in HS for scoring higher on verbal than math on the SATs (among boys anyway).  Some guys would max the math (almost) and make like 550 on the verbal.

And it's spelled "fonetix".

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #92 on: November 08, 2018, 11:53:04 AM »
....... but.... i say it "phone-etics"...  it's universally understood short-speech for how you ought to conduct yourself while using a phone. 

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #93 on: November 08, 2018, 12:01:36 PM »
Penultimate.

Ilk.

Symbiotic.

Lax.

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« Reply #94 on: November 08, 2018, 12:15:01 PM »
bluntly, you went in there making an ass of yourself blasting vulgarities and childishly calling people you don't know names charged with intent to incite. insofar as i am concerned about the interaction, i'm thinking 'the cesspool' handled you accordingly.   
And I did the opposite. No vulgarities, no name-calling. I did my best to source and justify every position I took. I handled myself with the decorum I use in this portion of the forum. 
Now, there was really only one poster down there that I was really locking horns with, who seems to prefer not to read what anyone actually posts but merely copy-paste walls of text in response [most of which doesn't justify what he claims it does, and in one case he was quoting the same source I was using back at me without realizing it]. When I had him ABSOLUTELY DEAD TO RIGHTS WRONG, he couldn't even admit based on clear language that he was wrong and claimed I don't understand the Supreme Court--when I'd just argued circles around him on the topic.
But I stand by my assertion that the folks down there are not interested in debate. They're interested in pounding their chests and talking about how much their "team" is awesome and how the other "team" is evil and horrible. And most of it is completely unhinged from reality, as in the thread they had about the mail-bomber a few weeks ago declaring it must be a Democrat false flag operation. And when it was proven not to be, went off on "tu quoque" tangents about Bill Ayers and Hillary. 
While we try to avoid "politics" up here in the B1G forum, we definitely talk about issues. And what I've found here is that even when we disagree, people take the time to read, to understand, and to respond to what the other posters say. We learn something from each other, instead of talking past each other. That's debate. What they do in A51 is not debate. 

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #95 on: November 08, 2018, 12:20:53 PM »
you did just as you reported @bwarbiany , and i commend your attempt and appreciate your integrity.  i was disappointed in that interaction, but not from your activity in the least... 

isolation in a place where concepts are reinforced and not challenged is a bad thing.  i've told them this over and over- and that they should entertain opposing views instead of believing the person posting intent on trolling alone.  

much of their clannishness comes directly from fly-by's we used to get on the other site- you guys talk about the merits of beans in chili- they deploy a few sorties in the form of personal attacks to deal with same.   

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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #96 on: November 08, 2018, 12:27:14 PM »
Few folks on line are interested in understanding "alternative POVs".  They are more interested in deriding, name calling, and "winning arguments" (chest beating).  I think THIS community here is a unique exception in my experience, even if we can't spell.


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Re: OT: Online Civility
« Reply #97 on: November 08, 2018, 12:47:59 PM »
I rarely pronounce "awry" the right way the first time. Force of habit from childhood.

 

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