My investments have done MUCH better than I forecast, not because I'm a savant, I did hit a couple homers, but because the markets have gone up, rather steeply. I keep an eye on allocations, this much to tech, this much to health care, this much to "stable" stocks, this much to "cash" or CDs. With big tech run ups, I can get over weighted versus my notional target pretty easily.
Instead of selling outright, I usually write out of the money call options on a stock. And it usually got called, but OK.
My wife wants to go to Marseille for a couple weeks in May. Comfort seats are $1500, premium seats are $4000. I'd like to spring for the latter, but it's obviously a $5 K difference, and I can't justify that.
It is tough to figure how much to spend each year on "extras", knowing at some point we won't be able to do this stuff much. I'm still playing baseball in January, which is pricey, and in a local league (which is not), we obviously travel and cruise quite a bit, we dine out fairly often, and splurge on Kroger sushi on Wednesdays.