It makes me grumpy to think about readjusting all this again. I want to be maxing out her 401k, which we weren't (still aren't, by a little bit), and after changing her withholdings, we were able to divert a lot more to the 401k and still meet the budget requirements. If we go back to withholding how they were already doing it, her take-home is a lot less and the bulk of that is going to have to come out of the 401k allotment.
I look at our budget sometimes and think there surely has to be something we can give up to require less money. But the truth is, we have an extraordinarily non-extravagant lifestyle. Other than canceling a couple of things like Netflix and Prime....we aren't doing things much beyond necessity. And those things are really chump change that won't significantly dent the budget.
Life is just expensive now. Ugh.