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MikeDeTiger

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Re: OT - Grumpy Old Man Thread
« Reply #938 on: February 11, 2026, 01:19:04 PM »
hah, sounds like some of the crap my brother puts up with at the University of Texas system

I'm sure it's ALL university systems

The Director of Assessment works in my department, and he poked his head in after it all went down.  Said he wasn't trying to eavesdrop, but he couldn't help but overhear my end of the conversation.  He said he was surprised I made it this long without getting reamed by faculty.  Said it happens to all of us eventually, and from time to time, you just have to get used to the idea that every now and then that happens, and that if you're not at fault and they don't want your help, you have to learn to tell them to f*** off.  

My threshold is really, really high, and most people don't have what it takes to make me blow my top such that I'd tell anyone to f*** off.  She sure didn't have it in her.  She made me mad, but nothing close to that.  

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« Reply #939 on: February 11, 2026, 01:21:10 PM »
Her: Yelling at me?

Me: F off and then hang up.

Hah, yeah....see above.  

I really wouldn't help my case by getting sideways with faculty anyway.  

To your point, in my meeting with my boss this morning, the only thing he recommended for the future was to quit trying to explain anything to anyone if they get like that.  He said go ahead and tell them they need to speak to my boss and then end the conversation.  Said don't bother trying to help people when they're like that.  

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« Reply #940 on: February 11, 2026, 01:23:01 PM »
yup, those types don't usually bother me as much as they'd like

they usually just want to blow off steam for being mad at themselves

I just let them rant and rave and them tell them to have a nice day at the end.

same with folks with road rage - I just smile and wave politely.  That usually makes them even more enraged!
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Re: OT - Grumpy Old Man Thread
« Reply #941 on: February 11, 2026, 01:27:02 PM »
"Kill 'em with kindness!" is a real thing.  

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« Reply #942 on: February 11, 2026, 01:53:28 PM »
F 'em.
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« Reply #943 on: February 12, 2026, 05:22:18 PM »
She told me she was writing everything down, and due to some federally protected information she included in her review being routed to the wrong department, I'd be getting a written email from her, and she was going copy "the very highest levels of authority." 

Welp, she did send the email, and she did copy the university president, the provost, the dean of her college, the head of HR, my boss, and two representatives from some state faculty representation outfits I'm not familiar with.  

I figured no matter how ridiculous her claims are and despite her refusal to accept any help to correct the situation, this would be taken seriously because of her claim that her ADA privacy rights were violated.  And it appears that it's indeed being taken seriously.

 
this might make her grumpy.........................



The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill recently rolled out a new policy that permits university officials to record classes without notifying the instructor. It’s a practice administrators have used in the past to investigate professors but have now formalized in writing.

According to the policy, administrators may, with the provost and general counsel’s written permission, record classes or access existing recordings without telling faculty in order to “gather evidence in connection with an investigation into alleged violations of university policy” and “for any other lawful purpose, when authorized in writing by the provost and the office of university counsel, who will consult with the chair of the faculty.”

Mehdi Shadmehr, an associate professor of public policy at UNC, told Inside Higher Ed the policy is “completely outside any kind of norm.”

“This is something that governments in Iran and Syria and East Germany and maybe military regimes back in the day in Argentina and Brazil would do, but in the United States? That’s just crazy,” he said.

Students are prohibited from recording in class without explicit permission from the instructor—a practice that has landed professors at other universities in political hot water in recent months. UNC students may seek an exemption to record through the accessibility resources office if needed, the policy states. Faculty members may record their own classes for “instructional purposes” but must notify students prior to recording. To record classes as part of tenure and promotion evaluation, the university must notify instructors of the forthcoming recording at least seven calendar days in advance and work with the instructor to find a class date that is “representative of the overall course.”
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Re: OT - Grumpy Old Man Thread
« Reply #944 on: February 12, 2026, 05:28:22 PM »
That might make me grumpy.  Not sure how I feel about that.  

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« Reply #945 on: February 12, 2026, 05:33:12 PM »
stay awake in class
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« Reply #946 on: February 12, 2026, 05:34:29 PM »
stay awake in class
Easier said than done

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« Reply #947 on: February 12, 2026, 05:42:33 PM »
don't have the hot beef for lunch
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« Reply #948 on: February 12, 2026, 08:50:58 PM »
I spent 17 minutes yesterday afternoon getting reamed on the phone by a faculty member who did her review process wrong and needs to re-do it.

My boss' boss contacted me shortly before I left work and asked me to write up a narrative of my recollection of the phone call.  So I got to spend a while last night doing that after supper, instead of relaxing and decompressing. I was never worried about it, and I've already been informed by both my boss and his boss this morning that I did everything correctly and not to worry about anything.  There's a lot of issues at play here I can't comment on.
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Re: OT - Grumpy Old Man Thread
« Reply #949 on: February 12, 2026, 08:53:13 PM »
  Said it happens to all of us eventually, and from time to time, you just have to get used to the idea that every now and then that happens, and that if you're not at fault and they don't want your help, you have to learn to tell them to f*** off. 
Ya - what that guy said,good to know there's more of us smooth talkers out there
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« Reply #950 on: February 12, 2026, 09:12:34 PM »
Ya - what that guy said,good to know there's more of us smooth talkers out there
Sometimes you just need a little smooth talk to make someone go **** themselves and yet make them feel like it was their own idea. 

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« Reply #951 on: February 13, 2026, 10:24:07 AM »
This is serious deal at the moment.  Like I said, lots of stuff I can't comment on.  

It's really to my advantage that I didn't tell her to F off or get rude with her.  That might've made me feel better in the moment but this is a good example of how there are many different nuances to different situations, and the right thing is not always showing your ass.  

Some random UT fan giving me shit about wearing my LSU shirt to a Longhorn game?  He can f right off (that happened, multiple times).  A "coworker" flies off the handle talking about lawsuits and bringing federally protected information into her accusations and clearly trying to bait me into saying something--anything--wrong so she can build some "Gotcha!" moments?  It is already clear to me in the unfoldings so far that I am much better off having kept a cool head and not taking her bait.  

 

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