One thing to always remember about being prepared... if the response was "you over reacted" it actually means you did your job effectively.
In Missouri, shut down wasn't really enforced. For a few weeks... yes..., but people were going to parks well before things opened and drive way gatherings started to be the norm. After 2 weeks, people felt safe and starting socializing with others who were "safe". Farmers never stopped... the food industry was business as usual. A lot did shut down, but if I wanted friends over, there was nothing stopping me from doing it. And people justified what they wanted to do. We all have friends on FB to prove that point.
That said... I think we made many mistakes. Some, at the time felt correct. I do think if you take away the financial concerns (say.. the gov't pays all mortgages, rent, etc for 3 months), the rush to go back would have been more measured. When you tell someone they have a 3% chance of catching the virus and a 100% chance of losing everything, it's tough not to suggest the economy shouldn't open back up. Feels like we've been on a pendulum and now we over react again.