This "conversation" reminds me of work. We were once told to have a series of meetings to discuss what could be done better. At the time, I was in a group that was mostly young folks. They had complaint after complaint. Our section leader was older and dutifully took them all down. None of them were "actionable", they were all ethereal wants of things. "I want the rating system to be fair" was one such example. I think we had about three such convos before it was shut down, the most common request was to have fewer meetings. And life went on.
Life is, in part, figuring out what items you can really influence and change, or at least offer a suggestion about that is real, and those items that are well out of your purview. You can complain about them if it makes you feel better, folks do that a lot. It's wasted energy.
God gave us coffee for the first group, and wine for the second.