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Topic: Is Urby In Trouble Here?

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MarqHusker

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #196 on: August 02, 2018, 08:14:41 PM »
I do agree w Medina.  All places im familiar with the policy is to arrest the offender if at the scene.  That's not the same thing as charging a defendant w battery.  Of course that's more complicated if the cops find out about the battery after a point at which there s no defendant to arrest.   Then there s either an arrest warrant or summons issued to the defendant.   At some point though the witness needs to made available.

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #197 on: August 02, 2018, 08:20:11 PM »
It’s a bit disingenuous to say we have one side of the story with the text messages and pictures, unless you believe they are made up. Urban’s wife, the Director of Football Ops wife all allude to the disgusting behavior of an absuive spouse, on top of those text messages stating it’s a known thing amongst the coaches. Heck, Zach smith’s own text even acknowledged it by saying he had sought treatment for it, followed by saying he would destroy her.

Urban knew. Just last week at media days he said he and his wife discuss everything. He brought her to help counsel Smith and his wife while in Florida for the 09 issues. Should we also ignore the Cleveland paper noting the multiple times police came to the home.

That is one persistent scheme by a spouse with no real end game, until now. Courtney dragged the family through a 9!! year conspiratorial plot to bring her husband through the mud just now. All in the name of losing the income source for her and her family. I have trouble reconciling that.

And to push the no charges thing after all we have elarn d about domestic violence is sad. I wonder why the wife of coaching legends grandson, in a football crazed town wouldn’t pursue a very public court process? Note, he is the sole income earner for the family at $400+k a year. Take a look at the comments about her photos on brett mcmurpjy’s Facebook page and tell me why she wouldn’t have reported sooner.


https://twitter.com/slmandel/status/1024703004849532928?s=12

Let’s not lose site of who the abuser was (Zach Smith) but a lot of individuals are to blame for where this has landed in the last week.
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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #198 on: August 02, 2018, 08:20:17 PM »
And sounds like he may have flipped to Oregon.
first domino falls in recruiting. probably won't be the last.

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #199 on: August 02, 2018, 08:47:39 PM »
LOL

PC=Respect

I don't know anyone who doesn't demand respect,  but keep whining about "PC".

"No, dammit! If I want to be an asshole to someone, disrespect them, and berate them, I should be allowed without the PC police! Wait...what did you say about 'guns and religion' you disrespecting a-hole?".

I love those who whine about "PC". Easy targets, because they're just as sensitive, if not more, than anyone else. 

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #200 on: August 02, 2018, 09:58:40 PM »
On page one of this thread (the last time I posted on this), I stated Urb would not be fired over this.  I had not realized at the time there was a new clause in his contract or the rules he had to follow as a state employee (the requirement to report).   Perhaps I'll be wrong, but I'm not sure how Urban can avoid being fired without the state having issues of enforcement or double standards.

That's assuming of course, I understand all the posts/tweets/articles correctly.   I have been traveling..
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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #201 on: August 02, 2018, 10:07:32 PM »
What he said was that when they looked into it now- there was nothing there.  It has already been reported that there was no arrest and smiths name was redacted from the police report- so in other words the authorities do not have enough to even press charges. Now why do you think that is?
Meyers wife employed her to press charges.  Why?
Lastly/ was their a risk of false termination at that point?
You press charges for generally two reasons most of the time (a lawyer can correct me on this)
1. There is a sense a conviction can be achieved
2. They can be used to leverage a plea
Now just because I can’t convict someone (an especially big challenge in DV cases), doesn’t mean the thing didn’t happen. Before 1970, one could not rape their spouse in a legal sense. But you bet it could happen. And courts don’t aim to take on really long shot cases just because.
Innocent until proven guilty ends up being a rather narrow guiding principle. It just is. Innocent people can be put in pretrial jail for months on end until it’s easier to say they’re guilty to something lesser just to ease the financial burdan. Likewise, by its nature, it means many guilty people will not be found that way by any system.
A million dollar job and small fiefdom is a privilege, not a right. As Ramzy said, there was a longterm stink on Smith. Urban chose to keep that around. And that can always cost. 
(Also, someone did a close listen to his big ten media day comment. An interesting detail was him kind of waiving off the 2009 thing as “they were a young couple.” This in reference to someone possibly being drunk and bouncing his pregnant wife off the wall. As a high-profile human, that in itself seems an issue)

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #202 on: August 02, 2018, 10:13:52 PM »
There’s also a consistent argument to wait for “the facts to come out.”

Most of the time they don’t or won’t. It’s not how this is handled. And what often happens is standards of skepticism rise and fall based on other factors. It’s hard not to be guilty of it. 

In the end, I think there’s a certain level of cynicism, maybe even less than we should have. I don’t assume most people are that moral, and I assume most coaches are far more amoral than average. Watch a coach carpet bomb a kid with f-bombs, then say that’s a sign of love. They operate with different social rules, which often leads to that disconnect. 

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #203 on: August 02, 2018, 10:32:54 PM »
I wonder, does McMurphy investigate this story if Urb merely said 'no comment' or some such 'I'm not going to discuss that matter here.'  (during media day)?   His answer, while not necessarily intentional, volunteered information.  I admit to not having read all of McMurphy's report carefully to construct his time line. (which is why I haven't commented on fate of Urban, only to point out the real life challenges from handling DV cases from a police/prosecutors standpoint, which of course are wholly unrelated to whether or not Urban Meyer should be fired, punished, etc.)

Yes, it is a horrible tragedy that victims are intimidated, pressured, coerced into not coming forward.  All day, I agree.  It is so GD frustrating when you work these cases.  I mean it, next to crimes against children, toughest cases to work mentally for me were DV.   In part, this is why large counties devote FT staff to being Victim Witness Coordinators.  Unfortunately, it is often not enough.    At the same time,  we can't go convicting people of crimes (DV, rape, etc.) based on hearsay.  The Sixth Amendment is a very real right for all of us, not some right made-up by men and women in robes.   The defendant has a right to confront the witness, and that means in court, not a sworn affidavit, not appearing by video conference, not on a transcript of text messages to the most honest and reliable of witnesses.

This isn't a defense of Smith, Meyer or tOSU, or anybody else.   These people and parties can and should face their own consequences based on their actions or inactions.  Whether the remedies are civil, criminal (for Smith), or merely administrative, they ought not be conducted by a social media/old fashioned media mob.

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #204 on: August 02, 2018, 11:08:25 PM »
LOL

PC=Respect

I don't know anyone who doesn't demand respect,  but keep whining about "PC".

"No, dammit! If I want to be an asshole to someone, disrespect them, and berate them, I should be allowed without the PC police! Wait...what did you say about 'guns and religion' you disrespecting a-hole?".

I love those who whine about "PC". Easy targets, because they're just as sensitive, if not more, than anyone else.
Though it’s objectively good to be nice to people – or at the very least to not be actively offensive – political correctness will never be a practical way to fix this about the world because its spirit of scolding is egotistical and off-putting, making it right for the wrong reason, which naturally causes the objects of its scolding to double down.
We deserve a more humble formula than “HOW DARE YOU, and now that I’ve stolen your attention, guess who also knows the best way for you to live?” Because even if the person saying HOW DARE YOU is correct about something that really matters, their style comprehensively fails. (...) Turns out that "It's not what you say but how you say it" wasn't just a lesson for toddlers.
Unfortunately, the schism between these two sides has become one of the most entrenched aspects of modern western identity and has fueled a sizable chunk of our current volatilty. And tragically, these fights that seem so meaty and essential are usually empty. I.E.: there are good people on the non-PC side who aren't being offensive for offensiveness's sake but rather to spite the PCers for thinking they had the right to be so sanctimonious about anything in the first place.
As for me, I'll admit I lean progressive on most matters, but I see PCness as a sickness and believe that finding a more patient and non-judgy way to express that "being a dick is fine if you're into that but actually, man, just try not to" is one of the most important upcoming social revolutions.
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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #205 on: August 02, 2018, 11:12:15 PM »
You press charges for generally two reasons most of the time (a lawyer can correct me on this)
1. There is a sense a conviction can be achieved
2. They can be used to leverage a plea
Now just because I can’t convict someone (an especially big challenge in DV cases), doesn’t mean the thing didn’t happen. Before 1970, one could not rape their spouse in a legal sense. But you bet it could happen. And courts don’t aim to take on really long shot cases just because.
Innocent until proven guilty ends up being a rather narrow guiding principle. It just is. Innocent people can be put in pretrial jail for months on end until it’s easier to say they’re guilty to something lesser just to ease the financial burdan. Likewise, by its nature, it means many guilty people will not be found that way by any system.
I've never seen a case charged based on a sense of conviction. (no offense to the remark) Going to trial? Now that requires the DA to look at the case again and evaluate the stakes.  It is quite embarrassing, unethical  and damaging to a DA's office to charge people with crimes which can't get past go.  Go=probable cause.  You only charge when you have PC.  You don't have it (even with a sense of guilt by the defendant) you gotta go get it.
Once a person is arrested (and in custody), that person must be brought before a judge or magistrate within 48 hours.  At that point the State must produce a criminal complaint demonstrating there is a probable cause that the charging crime was committed (must identify the criminal statute) AND probable cause that it was committed by the defendant.  This is typically presented on a few pages, describes the who what when and where, and it must be signed by some sworn official (usually a law enforcement officer, or prosecutor (sometimes a game warden).  If they can't do this, the person is released from custody immediately.   If State can get to this stage later, they can summon the person, or issue an arrest warrant. (This is common in DV, when a victim comes forward a day or few days later).
It is at this time the person is read the charges, right to atty, etc.  Then bail is determined.  A case like this, probably not cash bail, but certainly all kinds of no contact conditions.   Defendant signs signature bond, leaves, comes back for next appearance (arraignment), where they formally plead NG (usually).  In between Bail Hearing and Arraignment, this is the likeliest time the Defendant and DA discuss any plea bargain, if any is offered.   This is also when the DA typically learns whether or not the Victim is A. reliable, and B. going to testify.   You can count on the Defendant telling his/her lawyer,  'she ain't going to talk'.   Again, defense counsel stressed on this point too.  Who's for real?
Plea bargains in DV and OWI cases are extremely closely examined by DAs office, every women's group in the public,  MAAD, etc.   In any other non-violent crime,  yes, plea bargains are valuable tools of efficiency, supported by both sides of the bar, and the courts.   What are you really pleading 'down' to, when you have a unreliable witness in a misdemeanor battery case.  Criminal Disorderly Conduct is a 'fav' of the State.   
#For sake of discussion, let's assume the charges are misdemeanor, and not felonies (which would require either an indictment by a grand jury (filing of an 'Information')  or a preliminary hearing (a mini probable cause hearing).  That's where a defendant could very well be 'in custody' because there's cash bail which they can't post, for an extended period of time, but of course, they could exercise their right to a speedy trial.  That means the Preliminary Hearing has to take place in 10 days, with trail to follow 20 days later.  Majority of DV cases are charged as simple battery.   Substantial battery (felony assault) would bring all of this into play.  A plea bargain at this level, is incredibly scrutinized, only signed off on by Deputy or above, and usually not w/o full support of the Victim Witness Coordinator.  

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #206 on: August 02, 2018, 11:14:58 PM »
You press charges for generally two reasons most of the time (a lawyer can correct me on this)
1. There is a sense a conviction can be achieved
2. They can be used to leverage a plea
Now just because I can’t convict someone (an especially big challenge in DV cases), doesn’t mean the thing didn’t happen. Before 1970, one could not rape their spouse in a legal sense. But you bet it could happen. And courts don’t aim to take on really long shot cases just because.
Innocent until proven guilty ends up being a rather narrow guiding principle. It just is. Innocent people can be put in pretrial jail for months on end until it’s easier to say they’re guilty to something lesser just to ease the financial burdan. Likewise, by its nature, it means many guilty people will not be found that way by any system.
A million dollar job and small fiefdom is a privilege, not a right. As Ramzy said, there was a longterm stink on Smith. Urban chose to keep that around. And that can always cost. 
(Also, someone did a close listen to his big ten media day comment. An interesting detail was him kind of waiving off the 2009 thing as “they were a young couple.” This in reference to someone possibly being drunk and bouncing his pregnant wife off the wall. As a high-profile human, that in itself seems an issue)
That really resonates with my outlook. Guilt by judge and jury is a useful and sacred convention, but it isn't objective guilt. I fear how we'd recoil if we could learn the percentage of unconvicted, guilty people.

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #207 on: August 02, 2018, 11:18:46 PM »
Time and again leaders that almost always have sound judgement and are wildly successful get trapped because of those they keep around. 

Loyalty can be a major blindspot. It has ruined CEO’s, politicians, religious leaders and coaches. Bringing up names will probably garner debates we don’t want to get into. But you tend to fall one of two ways. Through your own undoing ( see Bobby Petrino ) or through a tangled web of what you have kept around you for too long.

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Re: Is Urby In Trouble Here?
« Reply #208 on: August 02, 2018, 11:22:12 PM »
Getting back to the bare bones: In this specific case, I think it can't be understated the significance that OSU's president is Michael Drake, not Gordon Gee. I'm not saying that this alone portends a future firing. But I think that and the wrestling scandal go most of the way to explaining why Meyer was immediately placed on administrative leave.
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« Reply #209 on: August 02, 2018, 11:28:11 PM »
unfortunately, Meyer is gonna get both.  Regardless of what he deserves.
today's PC over the top mob is very strong at Universities across the nation and they are allowed to have power and presence
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