When I was poor, I didn't look at wealthy folks and somehow think they were at fault for my poorness. I had ambition to become wealthier, if not wealthy. I did stuff to enable that, made some hard choices, stuck with a job I mostly didn't like, etc. I wasn't born wealthy, we were very middle class, my parents were school teachers for years, my sister was a school teacher for years, I even "taught" as a teaching assistant for years.
Anyway ...