There is no substitute for hard work
This is great. And true. And something we can all agree on.
BUT
Many or most of us, in our individual sample sizes of one, with our anecdotal observances, looked around growing up and saw that hard work was rewarded often, maybe 60-70-80, even 90% of the time. There was a payoff. It was easier to put in the hard work because there was a high-confidence in it yielding success. This is key.
What we need to understand and acknowledge (and not blame laziness or Starbucks) is that there are enormous swaths of the populace who grow up seeing hard work paying off only 30% of the time, or 20 or even 10% of the time. And fewer people perhaps putting in that hard work.
But that makes logical sense. With such a low likelihood of paying off, that's going to decrease those of a population to put in that hard work.....and that's not some hippy, far-left thing to say. It's just true. And if all of our experiences and observations and relatives had such low likelihoods of success while putting in hard work, maybe far fewer of them would have bothered to do it.
And THAT isn't some crazy liberal nonsense, it's just logically probable. It's okay to say it, as it's a hypothetical. It's not an attack on you, your family members, or your anything.
I'll never EVER understand the severe pushback I get on this board from what I deem to be logical, unremarkable observations that seem perfectly obvious to me. I really won't ever understand it.