FWIW:
My interest in Bowling Alone was the Service Club angle. A few years ago I served as President of my local Kiwanis Club. Clubs like these provide a lot of services to the Community. For just a few examples, my local club:
- We spend about $10k/yr on a "Christmas Shopping Project" where we take disadvantaged local students shopping in early December for coats, boots, clothes, etc.
- We do annual "Easter Bunny Visits" where we take the "Easter Bunny" around and drop of goodie bags to kids.
- We maintain a couple playgrounds in the community.
- We host 50th anniversary couples at an annual Golden Wedding Anniversary Luncheon.
- Etc.
I've got a long history with the Club because my dad joined in 1979 and took me along to meetings when I was out of School for the summer from then forward.
Back in the 1970's the club's lunch meetings were hosted by the local Congregational and Catholic Churches on a rotating basis. It was a fundraiser for the Churches. The cooks were pretty much all stay-home moms who would get together every other week when their church was hosting, cook lunch, socialize, and make a little money for their church. However, even in the 1970's, the kitchen crews were starting to age.
If you back up to say the 1960's most married women didn't work outside the home. So there were a lot of 30-something stay-home moms who had been born in the 1930's and 40-something stay-home moms who had been born in the 1920's on the Church kitchen crew. However, as the percentage of women in the workforce exploded across the 1970's the kitchen crews basically didn't get any new members so instead of replacing older volunteers with younger volunteers as had been done for decades, the kitchen crew just started to get older as the existing volunteers stayed in place with no replacements.
By the late 1980's the church kitchen crews basically hadn't seen a new member in a quarter-century so they had aged to the point that they simply couldn't do it anymore. This was actually delayed by the shrinkage of the Club itself (more on that later). In any case, sometime in maybe the late-80's or early-90's the Club switched to meeting at a local event center so the lunch was no longer supporting local churches. I ran into one of the Kitchen Crew ladies at a bowling alley (full circle). I told her we missed the home-cooked meals and she explained that when they stopped she was 72 and she was the youngest person in the kitchen crew.
The Club itself:
When I started going to lunch meetings with my dad in the late 1970's the Club had about 100 people in attendance every week. Today we are lucky if we hit 40. At first glance that looks like a 60% drop and it is, but it is actually MUCH worse than that for two reasons:
- Kiwanis was a "men only" organization until the mid-1980's so the number of potential members doubled when that changed, and
- The community I live in had a rapidly growing population throughout the 1980's and beyond so the population has more than doubled since I first attended in the late 1970's so the number of potential members doubled again based on population.
Members relative to potential members is actually down 90% in the last ~45 years. That is a SHOCKING drop.
That brings me to reading Bowling Alone. For decades we have talked about how to grow our club. I read Bowling Alone to get a handle on the overall situation and what I learned is that it isn't just MY local club. Across the country Kiwanis, Lions, Rotary, Eagles, Masons, etc along with bowling leagues and other social and service organizations are shrinking EVERYWHERE.
Back to my local club. I joined in 2001 at the age of 26. I've now been a member for 23 years and I am STILL one of the youngest members. We do have a few younger but the bulk of the members are the same guys that were in the Club when I was in HS 30+ years ago. They, of course, have gone from being 30-50 year old businessmen to being mostly 60-80 year old retirees.
I honestly don't know how to fix it but it is a problem. Kiwanis can't spend $10k/yr on shopping for disadvantaged kids if we don't have enough members to raise $10k/yr. Maintaining playgrounds is tricky when we show up for a work day and I (49) am the youngest guy there (sometimes by 20 years).