Thanks. And honestly I don't want to get too deep into religion. I spent enough time being the "angry atheist" online in the BBS world 30 years ago when I lost my faith. Rehashing it now is silly.
I'll add a few points, and then we can table it.
The god of the monotheistic religions seems to "change his nature of what he did and didn't reveal to us across time" (I admit I'm a bit confused by that one, but maybe it's just a wording thing.
This was just a statement about--as I understand it--the God of Judaism, Christianity, and Islam all being the same God. Just that during the pre-Jesus time the texts understand him one way, Jesus changed the Covenant and thus God should be understood another way, and then Islam declared that Jesus was just a prophet (false prophet?) and the understanding of God should now be superseded by the prophecies of Mohammed. (Oh, and then the Mormons came along--same God, dismissed Islam, added a bunch of malarkey).
I don't want to get into the specifics, but that was what the statement was trying to convey. Not so much that God is changing the revelations over time, but that as time passes new people seem to keep coming up with new versions of the same god. And oddly those new versions always seem self-serving.
The problem, I've found, when conversations go this direction, is that often a person isn't really asking me to answer those things. They're voicing frustration about things that seem unfair and hard to understand.
Yes. And not so much "unfair and hard to understand", but I've reached a point where I'm not really asking you to answer those things. They are things I find frustrating about religion, yes. But I'm not asking for an answer, because I don't believe the existence or nonexistence of God can be logically proven. Therefore sometimes when I ask questions it's about learning something new because I'm a nerd (i.e. Molinism), but hashing this out in detail with the goal of changing my mind on the question of god's existence is not something I'm really interested in doing. No proselytizing needed.
People who aren't believers either have logical objections, or emotional objections (or some combination of both). Answering questions like those mentioned above might get me somewhere with a person with logical objections. Emotional objections are a whole different story. Those folks don't want Christianity to be true, and data shows that evidence and arguments don't move their needle. You've told me two very key things. First, that it's a very personal level that gets you. Second, that some things don't sound like a God you would want to believe in. Pardon my frankness, but as someone who is not new to this discussion, these are indicators--if I've understood you correctly--that the main problem is not the questions about God you don't understand, rather it's what you think you do know, and don't like.
I'm over the emotional portion. As mentioned, I think most people who lose their faith go through the "angry atheist" phase. It's a natural reaction to getting to a point where you come to the conclusion that what a bunch of people have been shoving down your throat for [in my case] the first 13 or so years of your life is something that you think is BS.
The most annoying person in the world is the recent convert. Whether that's the recent convert to religion, away from religion, to CrossFit, to becoming vegetarian/vegan, etc. My "conversion" was 30+ years ago, and I've made my peace with it. I'll keep my annoyingness to proselytizing for Peloton, not to my atheism, tyvm

I don't want to make assumptions, so I'd ask you to carefully consider that and then tell me what you want next. Do you want me to try to make a case for Christianity, or at least point you to some resources you can dive into for yourself? Or do you want me to know that the whole thing falls short based on what you already know, and leave it there?
Yes, and we should leave it where it is, because I'm not really trying to get you to make a case for Christianity. About the only thing I can think of that would change my mind on the existence of god would be direct revelation.
There's a simple question that's always worth asking people when they more or less challenge me to defend my faith and prove it to them (I don't think that's what you're doing, btw....challenging me, that is).
Yeah, and again it's a reason we should leave it where it is.
Because I don't really want to challenge you, but in the context of this thread, i.e. "How do you know what you think you know?", it's probably impossible not to challenge you.
Because essentially I think you'd say at this point that you "know" that both tenets are true: God exists (the Christian one) and Jesus rose from the dead. However my experience in past discussions of this type is that often so much of the justification for both tenets come from the book that is itself asserting both tenets. And that's not evidence that I would allow to be inserted into evidence lol...
For me, I don't have any direct evidence of God that I consider compelling, and I don't consider accounts--even if they were firsthand accounts--of a resurrection >2000 years ago to be compelling.
So if we continue, it will probably be both ugly and pointless. I've had enough of those debates in my life. No need to bring them up here. Especially since I don't think either of us are moving from our position on the matter.
I might be interested in the Molinism thing you bring up, from a philosophical perspective. Sometimes I do have interest in philosophy of religion, even if I don't adhere to any religion.
What I will say is this: I know that there are a LOT of really really smart people who believe things I don't believe. Unlike OAM, I'm not going to sit here and belittle them or claim they're morons just because we don't believe the same thing. I might be the one who is wrong... And if so, I sincerely hope your god is merciful.