A few notes about my process, which will also help inform why I don't want a Suburban.
My goal was to get another couple years out of the Flex, to the point where more of the kids are out of the house. But right now, with the oldest driving, it's actually fairly rare that I use 5 seats in the Flex any more. So despite the fact that one of my sticking points when I bought it was needing a 7 passenger (third row) vehicle, I don't need that now. My oldest goes off to college in the fall, and his brother graduates in June 2027. I'll then have a 1-year overlap where my daughter is home but too young to drive herself. So I don't need the size. Ideally I'll downsize.
There are two bigger vehicles on the list, though. The EV9 and the Santa Fe. I think to an extent those are homage to the Flex. The EV9 is like a super-futuristic electrified Flex, and the Santa Fe is just a modernized gas Flex. If the right vehicle comes available used, I'll stick with something of that size, because they're extraordinarily practical vehicles. And unlike a Suburban, they ride (despite still being "SUVs") lower to the ground and IMHO will likely be better daily drivers despite the size. But they're not on the list because I
need the size.
Everything else on the list is downsizing. Because of the kids, I do need to make sure that someone can sit in the back seat behind me while driving... I've had cars in my life (the 89 Probe GT) where due to my driver seat position, there was no room behind me. That could potentially be an issue with the Mach-E or the GV60. I worry those are TOO small to be comfortable. So they might be ruled out due to my size.
But the cars on the list are the cars that for whatever reason, I look at them I and feel like I would LIKE to own them. There are a lot of vehicles out there that would be practical and acceptable. But as I remarked to my wife:
I look at so many of these boring midsize SUVs and feel like I could just pull a name out of a hat and I'd be neither happy nor sad about what name it showed me. The idea of an Explorer or a Highlander or anything in that class makes me feel like... "Ok. Fine. It's a car. Whatever. It's better than walking."
I'm 47 and successful. I think it's time to get what I
want, and a Suburban isn't that.