My i s c & a aggie wife managed to find a ham at the grocery store the other day. So we're having that, plus sausage cheese grits, deviled eggs, 7-layer salad, and an egg casserole that's a tradition in her family.
We're also letting her folks swing by the house and pick up to-go containers of food off the back patio and talk to our kids through the window, at noon. And we gave my parents a slot at 4 for the same thing. I felt SO sad for my parents, they ordered curbside at the grocery store and the store didn't have any ham, and subbed in a tiny little "ham steak." When I told them we had plenty and they were welcome to share it, they were so grateful.
The small things...